Are you having problems in your marriage?
Get a 3 by 5 card and list all of your husbands good qualities. Keep it in a recipe file or anywhere you can easily get at it when he is being a major jerk.
List everything, no matter how trivial.
Is he hard working?
Does he make you laugh?
Does he love your children?
Does he keep himself clean?
Is he always on time?
Put your thinking cap on and come up with everything you remotely like about him.
The card I had written for my husband had 22 specific attributes. Reading them made me realize he was a definite keeper, no matter how enraged I became.