As I have said before, (domestic violence is a no brain er when it comes to divorce.)
However, we must erase the idea that if you are not happy in your marriage you need to get out. No matter how many times unhappiness rears its ugly head in subsequent marriages.
That is exactly the stance we as a society took, some twenty years ago. I call it the 'me generation'. I am convinced that if you were happy once, you can get happy again. Also, why do the children have to suffer because your not happy? (And they do suffer.)
We need to go back and examine just what that kind of thinking got us. Then why don't we try to get married with the idea of making it work, no matter what we have to do. Let us try to keep children in the same house with both parents.
Barring any physical or sexual abuse, what ever happened to 'TIL DEATH DO US PART'?