I talked to a woman today whose sister was contemplating divorce. She had caught her husband cheating. She told me the woman's children and all of her friends were trying to talk her into leaving.
Her friends are not going to be the ones who have to suffer for his mistake; she is.
I asked this woman if her brother-in-law was an otherwise good husband and father. She answered very quickly that he was.
That is usually the criteria for choosing to stay. I hope she stays