A lady came in to the Salon today and said that her husband has been so much better since they read my book.
But she said, "I still have so much resentment for him because he doesn't do it like I would like it done."
I said, "I know you and you are a perfectionist. You are going to have to give up control and let him do things that you won't critique."
She realized that if she still wanted him to be a partner on the domestic front she had to accept him as he was.