I was interviewing a man who was trying to put some life back into his marriage.
He said, "I just happened to see my wife's planner on the counter and was astonished at how many things she had on her list."
What he said next made me laugh.
He said, "I asked my wife, 'where do I fit in on your list'?"
I told him all he had to do was take one or two of the responsibilities on her list, take them as his own, and replace them with his name.
It's funny how great men just don't get it.