tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81417849361794891802024-03-13T19:12:58.308-07:00no more divorcesby Sherri Mills
Author of "I Almost Divorced My Husband, But I Went On Strike Instead".Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger286125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-84360029518082402882013-03-31T19:08:00.002-07:002013-03-31T19:08:55.809-07:00InterviewI have an interview in the morning with a radio show out of Boston. Should be a lot of fun.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-90440389862077483582013-03-30T05:35:00.000-07:002013-03-30T05:35:20.113-07:00Darn SurgeriesWhen I went to the Doctor, he said I had to have another surgery on my heart. The first thing I said was. "I'M too busy, is it ok if I have it after all of my book stuff." <br />
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He said, "When will that be over? I want you before the summer is over."<br />
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I promised to take my medicine religiously until then.<br />
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Bad timingUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-72320769371018121212013-03-15T20:20:00.001-07:002013-03-15T20:20:27.116-07:00StoryI wrote an article and it got accepted by People Magazing on line.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-85370126706169529732013-03-13T12:39:00.003-07:002013-03-13T12:39:19.801-07:00My cover for my new book<div class="userContentWrapper aboveUnitContent">
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-70846567896460416172013-03-04T04:46:00.001-08:002013-03-04T04:46:48.189-08:00AuthorpaloozaI just got back from the Authorpalooza. It is so much fun to meet new people. We all become fast friends in the author world.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-74149698468458321272013-03-01T03:55:00.001-08:002013-03-01T03:55:19.051-08:00InterviewGerald and I had quite a long interview with Elizabeth Bernstien from the Wall Street Journal. It was so much fun and we both just loved her. She said she was going to do a story about my books close to when my new book comes out.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-30361445927007000522013-02-27T06:12:00.002-08:002013-02-27T06:12:27.265-08:00InterviewA lady from the Wall Street Journal called me and wants to do an interview with me today. I will post tomorrow how the interview went.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-52691540309651279892013-02-17T08:22:00.000-08:002013-02-17T08:22:28.321-08:00Random Acts of Kindness<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Welcome to Random Acts of Kindness Giveaway Hop hosted by I Am A Reader, Not a Writer. I'm so happy you stopped by. Today on my blog you can win a signed copy of my book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Almost-Divorced-Husband-Strike-Instead/dp/1599555174/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1351005475&sr=8-1&keywords=i+almost+divorced+my+husband" target="_blank">I Almost Divorced My Husband But I Went on Strike Instead</a>. And I'm very excited to announce a new companion novel coming soon, titled<i> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Marriage-101-Men-Taking-Trash/dp/1462112099/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UT" target="_blank">Marriage 101 for Men...Why Taking Out The Trash is a Turn On</a></i><a href="http://./">.</a>..coming soon to a book store near you!<br />
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And don't forget to check out my website to learn my story @ <a href="http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/">http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/</a><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-51725645278270539092013-02-16T14:54:00.002-08:002013-02-16T14:54:56.539-08:00Phone CallI got another phone call today. A lady said my book had absolutely revved up her marriage and said all of her five kids have read it or are reading it and they are all doing their part. She said my book was amazing and interesting to read and the chapter on kids was fantastic.<br />
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I get a tingle every time.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-14210510742143961402013-02-06T16:56:00.002-08:002013-02-17T08:20:40.507-08:00Romance is in The Air<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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1) Follow this blog (+1)<br />
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And don't forget to check out my website to learn my story @ <a href="http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/">http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/</a><br />
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Welcome to the Follower Love Giveaway Hop hosted by I Am A Reader, Not a Writer. I'm so happy you stopped by. Today on my blog you can win a signed copy of my book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Almost-Divorced-Husband-Strike-Instead/dp/1599555174/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1351005475&sr=8-1&keywords=i+almost+divorced+my+husband" target="_blank">I Almost Divorced My Husband But I Went on Strike Instead</a>. And I'm very excited to announce a new companion novel coming soon, titled<i> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Marriage-101-Men-Taking-Trash/dp/1462112099/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UT" target="_blank">Marriage 101 for Men...Why Taking Out The Trash is a Turn On</a></i><a href="http://./">.</a>..coming soon to a book store near you!<br />
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<i>I Almost Divorced My Husband But I Went on Strike Instead </i>is available on Amazon Kindle or a book store near you, and has been used in several marriage counseling offices across the United States.<br />
<br />
To Win:<br />
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1) Follow this blog (+1)<br />
2) Follow me on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/Author.Sherri.Mills?fref=ts" target="_blank">Facebook</a> (+1)<br />
3) Add my book to <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/10780329-i-almost-divorced-my-husband-but-i-went-on-strike-instead" target="_blank">Goodreads</a> (+1)<br />
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And don't forget to check out my website to learn my story @ <a href="http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/">http://www.sherrimillsauthor.com/</a><br />
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Thank you!<br />
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If you do the right thing in the wrong way, it turns out to be a disaster.<br />
That's why I have two whole chapters in my new book explaining why help is a dirty four letter word that isn't helpful at all.<br />
When a man helps his wife with her chores, his well-intentioned efforts may end up turning him into a helpmate rather than an object of desire.<br />
My book gives step by step ways husbands can pick responsibilities of their very own and still maintain their manliness. My ideas will greatly increase his trips to the bedroom.<br />
I always say that anger and resentment on either side leads to less sex.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-25513220262828092562013-01-30T09:15:00.000-08:002013-01-30T09:15:17.471-08:00WisdomJohn Gottman writes, "A little known fact; being critical of your spouse greatly increases their chance of chronic illness."<br />
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Be ever patient with your spouse. Just because he or she thinks or acts different than you, doesn't mean you are right and they are wrong.<br />
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So be nice!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-49030685462458046632013-01-27T11:27:00.001-08:002013-01-27T11:27:23.055-08:00Book CoverThere are only 5 or 6 more days until my book cover comes out. Yea!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-82609163482943863602013-01-26T14:51:00.001-08:002013-01-26T14:51:41.370-08:00Surviving Infidelity
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">First and foremost the following are situations where
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Now that we have that out of the way, why don’t we go ahead
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Often, when women discover that their husbands are having an
affair they get angry and kick him out. They go to the first Attorney they can
find in the phone book and file for divorce. At that point they are so hurt and
distraught that they can’t even think past the nose that’s sitting on their
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So many men are basically, not only good people but
fantastic fathers, but somewhere in the bottom half of their anatomy, something
else becomes in charge.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Don’t jump the gun. Give yourself time to recover from the
shock before you make life altering decisions. Find a friend that you can trust
who will have your best interests at heart.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Confide in someone who knows all of the good qualities that your husband
possesses.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A friend can tell you the good parts of your
marriage because in your post infidelity state you will be able to see no good
in your marriage. That will come after you have kicked him out and you see him
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-2603692008971421672013-01-26T10:39:00.003-08:002013-01-26T10:39:34.882-08:00Turned her Marriage AroundI got another message from a reader who thanked me from the bottom of her heart for helping her cut off the dead ends in her marriage and give it new life. She said she is so happy. Yea!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-90759680271609782322013-01-22T12:13:00.000-08:002013-01-22T12:13:02.448-08:00Marriage 101 for MenIn my book, 'Marriage 101 for Men (why taking out the trash is a turn on)', I trace the typical evolution of marriages from hot and sexy to distracted and low on intimacy. I offer men a win-win strategy for eliminating nagging and improving their sex lives.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-59839196611821377422013-01-19T17:05:00.002-08:002013-01-19T17:05:37.323-08:00Fight for Your MarriageA dear friend put this on my face book: By Carl Wimmer<br />
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Men, fight for your marriage! Yes, fight as if your childrens lives depend on it because they do. Almost 100% of the habitual problem kids are walking around with broken hearts because of broken homes. You would die for your children Right? Then be willing to die to save your marriage.<br />
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This hit me in the heart!!!<br />
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-25677369935665829682013-01-12T08:31:00.000-08:002013-01-12T08:31:07.743-08:00TV ShowI did an interview on the TV show ETV channel 10 to be aired Wed. Jan. 16 at 11:05 and 6 PM. Amanda Holly is wonderful. The interview had two segments. One about my first book, I Almost Divorced my Husband but I Went on Strike Instead'. The second segment was about my second book 'Marriage 101 for Men--Why Taking out the Trash is a turn on'. The second book is on Amazon for pre-order right now and it will be on the shelves in May.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-62734584220009765162013-01-08T04:33:00.002-08:002013-01-08T04:33:46.817-08:00Going ForwardI got the new medicine yesterday and so far no side effects. Now to get on with my life.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-67770385285036582512013-01-06T13:19:00.003-08:002013-01-06T13:19:59.475-08:00HeartI haven't been posting lately because I have been under the weather. I went to the Doctor the other day and he said that if the new medicine doesn't work he will have to do another heart surgery. I took the heart medicine and had a severe allergic reaction to it so I hope he has another one he can use. I don't relish having heart surgery again.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-4092134795347832162012-12-26T05:59:00.001-08:002012-12-26T05:59:43.420-08:00Another Touching MessageI got another instant message yesterday about my book, 'I Almost Divorced my Husband but I Went on Strike Instead'. The lady said that her Marriage Counselor gave it to her and her husband to read, after nothing else seemed to work.<br />
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She said, "I was determined to get a divorce until we read your book. The book explained everything so elloquently that even my husband understood, and we both changed." Then she added, "Sherri, I bet you have no idea how many lives you have touched."<br />
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I told her to be sure and get my next book, 'Marriage 101 for Men-Why taking out the trash is a turn on', I told her that everyone who has read it says it is better than the first.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-12483693072127891722012-12-19T10:25:00.000-08:002012-12-26T06:00:58.281-08:00Teaser From the new BookAlthough anger and resentment from a wife is warranted, it's mostly directed at the wrong person. Men are not at fault.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-29670673452126933222012-12-19T10:24:00.003-08:002012-12-19T10:24:47.884-08:00Good News and Bad NewsToday the bad news that my basement flooded and after backbreaking work we are waiting for the Insurance person to get here.<br />
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The good news is that I got a very personal tear jerking message from someone who tells me thast my book saved their marriage. She thanked me from the bottom of her heart.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8141784936179489180.post-3852190403776802932012-12-12T19:45:00.001-08:002012-12-12T19:45:24.388-08:00PicturesI had some photos taken for my book and my daughter keeps putting them all on face book. She is so sweet but enough already. lolUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0