I did a teenagers hair yesterday and I asked her how she was getting along with her step-dad.
She bristled at my question and said, "He is an A-- H---. He sits around all day while my mom does everything."
I said, "wasn't that her biggest complaint against your dad?"
"Yes it was," she answered, "but at least my dad was at work when she mowed the lawn." She added, "This guy does absolutely nothing around the house, and they both work."
It can't be fixed the second time if we didn't know how to fix it the first time around.